Adieu for now

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 Shalom shalom!

For whatever reason I haven't been able to figure out email subscriptions to my blog here. This is why I'm moving this project to substack. Don't worry, these posts will still stay free. 

I just want to allow people the opportunity to get email notifications. 

Please follow me over to substack

https://open.substack.com/pub/telemwrites/p/welcome-to-my-substack?r=5firx1&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=email

I will feature my upcoming posts there.


- Jewish Pride and Prejudice

An in-depth look at “Pride and Preference” by Barbara Bensoussan


- Interracial Jewish romance

The Story of Moshe and Tzipporah


- Interview with Barbara Bensoussan

We both wrote Jewish versions of Pride and Prejudice


See you there!

With love,

Telem ❤️

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